Julia and Paul Child's marriage was described by some as a feminist love story, characterized by a strong bond and a remarkably modern dynamic. The two met in the Far East during World War II, when they were both stationed there. Though Paul was 10 years Julia's senior, he was a poet, artist, and black belt in judo. Julia saw marriage as a "lovely intertwining of life, mind, and soul." She and Paul were in agreement on most matters and shared the same circle of friends.
Notably, the Childs knew how to balance togetherness and independence, content to spend all their time together.Paul was an integral part of Julia's success, serving as her manager, photographer, illustrator, taster, and proofreader. He supported her wholeheartedly, even accompanying her on book promotion tours. Despite the traditional gender roles of the time, Paul readily accepted Julia's role as the family's primary breadwinner.
Paul's photographs of Julia captured the radiance she exuded. Though the couple were not overly affectionate in public, they shared an unbreakable bond until Paul's death at age 92 in 1994. Julia and Paul shared no children.